I could honestly see either Monk or Dragoon being really good fits for you...though I think in the end I'm leaning slightly more towards Dragoon. They seem to be more adept at seeing grey areas than other job class characters sometimes are, can be rather blunt or honest at times, can be quite stubborn, and care deeply for those they are close to. How you described your answers to the later traits section had me thinking of characters such as Freya, Fang, Kain, and Kimahri--and I could even see them in how you responded to the team/leader question as well. :D