Well...at the risk of sounding totally unoriginal by this point, I think the Monk job class fits you really well! XD You're loyal, passionate, witty, mouthy, and stubborn...which are all traits I can associate with some of the more vocal Monk characters (like Snow and Zell...I could even picture the two of them admitting that sometimes they desire violence as a way to get a quick result, especially Snow). Your extroverted, cheerful, supportive, confident, in-between reserved/logical, energetic, and charming traits fit really well with quite a few of the Monk characters too. I think many of them would view working in a team like you do...and I could see them not only listing Martial Arts as a hobby, but also as something they'd like to do for an ideal career (like Yang from FFIV!). Plus, you even mentioned that you can really relate to Snow! :)