I'm really torn between Soldier and Black Mage for you, because most of the Soldiers that I can think of tend to be less... the word isn't showy, but you do like to prove that you're capable. I think that's something you see more with the Black Mage characters in general. Also, you prefer not to take the lead and the way you're willing to aid but not coddle people reminds me of some of the later Black Mages like Lulu.