I am so torn here. I keep thinking about Soldier for you but I cannot really unsee Black Mage and even see some Monk here and there. In the end I think am going to be unoriginal and go with Black Mage. While I still see a lot of soldier class for you, the rest of the explanations really convinced me that overall you're a bit more like BM. You're someone who liked to listen to people and help them which is something i associate with them more than with most of the soldiers in FF. You're intelligent, passionate, stubborn. You also mentioned you don't like people and most Black Mages aren't really social types as well. You're introverted, feminine more than tomboy-ish. While reading through your FF section, i got the feeling that you have strong opinions and it's something i associate with a lot of FF characters from that job class. I saw soldiers also because i think they're more impulsive and somewhat more energetic without being too much but.. Yes, overall I see more Black Mage too.
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